When considering the relationship between technology and children, we must remember that a child’s mind is still developing, while technology is already highly advanced. Should we introduce this “adult” concept to young children?
In my opinion, technology and children cannot be friends at such a tender age. Childhood is often the best phase of life. We recall navigating the highs and lows of relationships with grandparents, classmates, and friends, all under our parents’ guidance to ensure appropriate social development.
Today, technology permeates the lives of even preschoolers. For working parents like me, eliminating access is challenging. Regulating technology use has become crucial; our absence often drives children to seek engagement with devices, creating a new world that can adversely affect their mental health.
While writing this article, I spoke with my daughter, who is nearing adulthood. I asked her how she felt when we initially denied her a smartphone. She admitted to feeling angry, especially as many peers had one, but later expressed gratitude for our decision. It pushed her to explore various activities and develop new hobbies.
Numerous studies discourage excessive technology use among young children. While technology is here to stay, we must prioritize preserving childhood with meaningful memories and experiences.
Some solutions that worked for us:
- Less personal Gadgets. No gadgets allowed during dinner.
- Missing school; no gadgets until 4 PM.
- Invested in an alarm clock instead of using a cell phone.
- Purchased digital timers to help focus on tasks without distractions.
What strategies have worked for you? Do share your thoughts @techexperiments18@gmail.com