Dr Ruupa Rao,
Psychologist and Psychotherapist,
And ICF PCC
www.ruuparao.com
A few weeks ago, an IT professional from Bangalore shared his story online—it resonated with so many of us. After months of working 12-hour days, handling client calls at odd hours, and skipping meals to meet deadlines, he found himself in a hospital bed. Diagnosis? Exhaustion and stress-induced hypertension. What he thought was just “part of the hustle” turned out to be full-blown burnout.
Burnout isn’t just about feeling tired. It’s that deep sense of exhaustion, hopelessness, and detachment that doesn’t go away with a weekend off. Work is often the biggest culprit, especially in high-pressure environments. Tight deadlines, long hours, and a lack of appreciation can wear anyone down. But unlike regular stress, which comes and goes, burnout lingers—it’s like carrying a heavy backpack you can’t put down.
The effects are far-reaching. Your health takes a hit—constant fatigue, headaches, and even falling sick often. Your relationships suffer because you’re too irritable or too drained to engage. And your productivity? It nosedives.
How to Manage Burnout
- Pause and Prioritise: Take a step back. Your health comes first—work can wait.
- Set Boundaries: Learn to say “no” to extra tasks that you just can’t handle.
- Reconnect with Joy: Go back to the hobbies you loved—painting, cooking, or even just watching a good movie.
- Talk It Out: Share what you’re feeling with someone you trust. You’re not alone.
- Eat well, sleep well, and move your body. Small changes can bring big relief.
If the mental burden doesn’t lift despite trying these steps, reach out to a psychologist. They can help you untangle the mess and find a way forward. Remember, burnout doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’ve been strong for too long. Asking for help is the first step to healing.